* Resting Bitch Face - The Founder

* Resting Bitch Face - The Founder

Black and white photo of Terri D Symington Laki, resting her face on her hand. Overlaid text says "Resting Bitch Face Boomer", with a playful drawing of an eye and eyebrow near her eye.

Welcome to the RBF Boomer Community

70+ year old here, seeking to capture the full potential of life, while sharing community with other positive and curious minded individuals, who appreciate that the possibilities in life are endless …

Terri D. Symington Laki

About

I’m currently residing in the beautiful town of San Miguel de Allende, Mexico… sharing good times with awesome friends, painting, traveling, creating new opportunities, while enjoying this view of life … (I’m here on the right with my friends Nancy on the left and Jabí in the center

Terri D. Symington Laki and two of her friends looking at the night time city lights of San Miguel de Allende in the background.

A Little More About Me …

I’ve spent over seven decades discovering who I am in relation to the rest of the world … I am your typical INTJ, Sigma Female … who also happens to be a Virgo … what are the chances ? We don’t choose our beginnings, but the rest of life is all about choices. We are a product of our environment and programming, but self-awareness makes it possible to come to understand what makes ourselves tic … our strengths and weaknesses, our shortcomings and our powers. We do in fact have the ability to choose what we desire and what we want to change about ourselves in order to live the life we want for ourselves. It does come down to becoming aware of our paradigm, or conditioned behavior, and being honest with oneself in order to change your perspective and mindset. When we change our mindset, we change our life.

My Professional Bio: …

Terri creates a space where artistic expression transcends traditional boundaries, inviting viewers to reconsider their relationship with art and its place in everyday life. The gallery champions the vital importance of critical and independent thinking, while simultaneously nurturing an open and inquiring mind — a delicate balance that Terri believes is essential for genuine artistic appreciation and personal growth. By curating experiences that challenge conventional thinking, she encourages visitors to question established narratives, form their own conclusions, and remain receptive to new ideas and perspectives. This approach reflects Terri's conviction that true creativity flourishes at the intersection of rigorous intellectual inquiry and boundless curiosity about the world around us and that a person can manifest the life they desire through artful living, given that the right mindset is practiced and lived.

Terri's artistic journey emerges from movement and form, first cultivated through her years as a dancer with a Houston ballet/jazz company. Her current work focuses on impressionistic figurative paintings that capture the fluidity and expression she first discovered through dance. This evolution from performance to visual art reflects her core artistic philosophy: making the invisible visible through creative expression.

Working primarily in oils and mixed media, Terri's work embraces the beauty of human imperfection. Her paintings deliberately reveal underlying construction lines and intentionally unfinished areas, reflecting our perpetual state of becoming. Like the Japanese art of Kintsugi, where broken pottery is mended with gold to honor its history, her work celebrates how human experiences – both challenges and triumphs – create our unique beauty. This philosophy manifests in her impressionistic style, where visible brushstrokes and thoughtfully incomplete elements invite viewers to engage with the artwork's evolving narrative, much like their own.

Her technique combines classical training with intuitive approaches, resulting in work that bridges figurative-realism and impressionism. The human form serves as her primary subject, allowing her to investigate themes of visibility, movement, and self-expression.

Her artistic credentials span multiple creative disciplines, including roles as a fashion illustrator and art director for a prominent fashion/home furnishings company and an award-winning interior designer and Professional member of ASID. From all these careers she brings a sophisticated understanding of space, color, and composition to her current work.

Recent recognition includes participation in the group show “Seductions” at the Texas Woodlands Glade Gallery 2022,  as well as a group show “Painting the Figure Now” at the Wausau Museum of Contemporary Art in 2021, and Artsy's 2018 "The New Nude" exhibition and publication in "PoetsArtists." She is represented in 33 Contemporary gallery's roster of curated artists through which she will have artwork included in the Lunar Codex project that puts artists’ work in the moon.  She has been featured in Artsy Shark online art magazine, as well as a featured artist in the art and literature journal ArtAscent.  Previously, she maintained studios in Switzerland and Houston before relocating to her current base in San Miguel de Allende, Mexico.

One of Terri's desires and ambitions was always to share her knowledge and experience to help elevate the journey of others. Her unique perspective on how one creates their own environments and life experiences was a perception she held since childhood. That perspective on life, along with a broad range of experiences and curiosity and interests is what brought to fruition the RBF Gallery with the belief that art is the fuel that makes all aspects of life so fascinating — and that it is within reach for all humans to embrace, given the right mindset and awareness.

Through RBF Gallery, Terri creates a space where artistic expression transcends traditional boundaries, inviting viewers to reconsider their relationship with art and its place in everyday life. The gallery champions the vital importance of critical and independent thinking, while simultaneously nurturing an open and inquiring mind — a delicate balance that Terri believes is essential for genuine artistic appreciation and personal growth. By curating experiences that challenge conventional thinking, she encourages visitors to question established narratives, form their own conclusions, and remain receptive to new ideas and perspectives. This approach reflects Terri's conviction that true creativity flourishes at the intersection of rigorous intellectual inquiry and boundless curiosity about the world around us and that a person can manifest the life they desire through artful living, given that the right mindset is practiced and lived.

The sideward glance of an stylized eye for the RBF logo.

* Resting Bitch Face …

What it Means Here

And It’s Not What You’ve Been Told

"Resting Bitch Face" isn't about facial expressions—it's an emblem of self-confidence, a symbol of those who possess the audacity to live authentically through independent thinking … because we comprehend that thinking is dependent on different ways the brain processes information, and that our brains operate independently from the social norms, and reject blindly accepting rules and social programming without questioning.

It represents the quiet defiance of those who refuse to seek external permission for their perspectives, experiences, or responses to the world around them.

This is the attitude of the woman who has grown up on the outside looking in … knowing that she belonged on the outside … And was in acceptance of not belonging to the inside, and did so without harboring prejudice or desiring to belong. It has always come with a ‘knowing” that life was just different. Not right or wrong, better or worse, but knowing that it was just a different way of seeing and perceiving.

Knowing is the “aging into” and becoming a finer vintage, by letting go of the need to explain one’s opinions and perspectives to people who will never “get it”. It doesn’t matter if others accept or understand what we think or believe. While it broadens one’s personal knowledge by comprehending other people’s point of views, it is not the obligation of others or ourselves to accept other’s beliefs, reasonings or realities.

The problem isn’t about being in agreement, but it lies in not being in-touch with or surrounded by open minded people that are interested in sharing ideas, with the possibility of seeing reality through a different perspective. That is being part of a community that grows mentally and spiritually. Not by adapting other’s realities, but by broadening your own and coming into a place of self-awareness with renewed energy, to live in a state of genuine authenticity.

* Resting Bitch Face - The Brand

* Resting Bitch Face - The Brand

Resting Bitch Face – The Brand®

Resting Bitch Face – The Brand® is the umbrella identity behind a growing portfolio of creative, cultural, and commercial ventures founded by Terri Symington Laki. The Brand encompasses original content, curated experiences, community platforms, and product lines—including apparel, art, and lifestyle goods—developed under a single, consistent creative vision.

While the phrase “resting bitch face” may appear in popular culture as a casual expression, Resting Bitch Face – The Brand® functions here as a distinctive trademark, identifying the source of original offerings that explore authenticity, confidence, humor, and self-expression—particularly for women redefining life, creativity, and visibility on their own terms.

All uses of Resting Bitch Face – The Brand® on this site and in associated online stores are intentional, commercial, and brand-specific, representing a unified body of work rather than a generic slogan or descriptive phrase.

Resting Bitch Face – The Brand® is a registered and/or pending trademark used in connection with original content, online communities, and retail offerings.

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